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Love & Respect Part 2

Marriage is God’s idea, and it is

. The context for all loving, intimate, relationships between one man and one woman is .

Ephesians 5:21-33
21 And further, submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.
22 For wives, this means submit to your husbands as to the Lord.
23 For a husband is the head of his wife as Christ is the head of the church. He is the Savior of his body, the church.
24 As the church submits to Christ, so you wives should submit to your husbands in everything.
25 For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her
26 to make her holy and clean, washed by the cleansing of God’s word.
27 He did this to present her to himself as a glorious church without a spot or wrinkle or any other blemish. Instead, she will be holy and without fault.
28 In the same way, husbands ought to love their wives as they love their own bodies. For a man who loves his wife actually shows love for himself.
29 No one hates his own body but feeds and cares for it, just as Christ cares for the church.
30 And we are members of his body.
31 As the Scriptures say, “A man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one.”
32 This is a great mystery, but it is an illustration of the way Christ and the church are one.
33 So again I say, each man must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.

Ephesians 5:21
21 And further, submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.

Ephesians 5:25
25 For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her

The

of every woman is love, which means her deepest is love. Mutual
for a husband means to your wife as Christ the Church.

Ephesians 5:23
23 For a husband is the head of his wife as Christ is the head of the church. He is the Savior of his body, the church.

When her need is met, her heart is

. She becomes the person you , fell in love with, and wanted to . So, what happened? How does the person you couldn’t get of become the person you can’t being around?

Revelation 2:4-5
4 “Nevertheless I have this against you, that you have left your first love.
5 “Remember therefore from where you have fallen; repent and do the first works, or else I will come to you quickly and remove your lamp-stand from its place–unless you repent.

It’s called the

cycle when the husband acts , the wife acts
and when the wife acts
, the husband acts . This can happen in a second, and if we are not spiritually , it can last a lifetime. This is true of marriage and all relationships.

Matthew 7:12
“Do to others whatever you would like them to do to you. This is the essence of all that is taught in the law and the prophets.

Luke 6:31-38
31 “And just as you want men to do to you, you also do to them likewise.
32 “But if you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? For even sinners love those who love them.
33 “And if you do good to those who do good to you, what credit is that to you? For even sinners do the same.
34 “And if you lend [to those] from whom you hope to receive back, what credit is that to you? For even sinners lend to sinners to receive as much back.
35 “But love your enemies, do good, and lend, hoping for nothing in return; and your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High. For He is kind to the unthankful and evil.
36 “Therefore be merciful, just as your Father also is merciful.
37 “Judge not, and you shall not be judged. Condemn not, and you shall not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven.
38 “Give, and it will be given to you: good measure, pressed down, shaken together, and running over will be put into your bosom. For with the same measure that you use, it will be measured back to you.”

Matthew 7:12
“Do to others whatever you would like them to do to you. This is the essence of all that is taught in the law and the prophets.

God, in his

, created a supernatural
that requires and sacrifice for relationships to thrive. He asks us to give what doesn’t come , because He wants us to live supernatural lives.