Choosing Kindness
Part of Real Love
February 9, 2020

Choosing Kindness: Love Is Kind. 1 Cor 13:4

Kindness is the supernaturally generous orientation of our hearts toward others, even when they don’t

it or return it.

Kindness is more than

.

Let a righteous man strike me—that is a kindness; let him rebuke me—that is oil on my head. My head will not refuse it. Psalm 141:5

The Benefits

- Never let loyalty and kindness leave you! Tie them around your neck as a reminder. Write them deep within your heart. Then you will find favor with both God and people, and you will earn a good reputation. Pro 3:3–4

-Your kindness will reward you, but your cruelty will destroy you. Pro 11:17

- Whoever pursues righteousness and kindness will find life, righteousness, and honor. Pro 21:21

God’s Kindness

The Lord is slow to anger and abundant in lovingkindness, forgiving iniquity and transgression; but He will by no means clear the guilty. Num 14:18

Notice how God is both kind and severe. He is severe toward those who disobeyed, but kind to you if you continue to trust in his kindness. But if you stop trusting, you also will be cut off. Rom 11:22

In order that in the coming ages he might show the incomparable riches of his grace, expressed in his kindness to us in Christ Jesus. For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is
not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast. Eph 2:7–9

Or do you presume on the riches of his kindness and forbearance and patience, not knowing that God’s kindness is meant to lead you to repentance? Romans 2:4

: To change one’s way of life as the result of a complete change of thought and attitude with regard to sin and righteousness.

Well then, should we keep on sinning so that God can show us more and more of his wonderful grace? Of course not! Since we have died to sin, how can we continue to live in it? Romans 6:1–2

God’s Kindness

They must not slander anyone and must avoid quarreling. Instead, they should be gentle and show true humility to everyone. Once we, too, were foolish and disobedient. We were misled and became slaves to many lusts and pleasures. Our lives were full of evil and envy, and we hated each other. But—When God our Savior revealed his kindness and love, he saved us, not because of the righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy. He washed away our sins, giving us a new birth and new life through the Holy Spirit. Titus 3:2-5

Those

kindness, must give kindness.

But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be children of the Most High, because he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked. Luke 6:35

Anyone who withholds kindness from a friend forsakes the fear of the Almighty. Job 6:14

Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity. Col 3:12–14

Characteristics of a K.I.N.D. Person

K:

God’s Kindness
I: , Even When Busy
N: Needs
D: What’s Necessary