Proverbs 18:21 ESV
Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits.
Proverbs 6:16, 19 CSB
The Lord hates six things; in fact, seven are detestable to him
19 a lying witness who gives false testimony, and one who stirs up trouble among brothers.
Proverbs 18:8 CSB
A gossip’s words are like choice food that goes down to one’s innermost being.
GOSSIP AUDIT: WHY DO YOU ENGAGE IN GOSSIP?
GOSSIP AUDIT: WHO DOES GOSSIP HURT?
Proverbs 16:28 CSB
A contrary person spreads conflict, and a gossip separates close friends.
Proverbs 17:4 CSB
An evildoer listens to wicked lips, and a liar gives ear to a mischievous tongue.
Proverbs 25:9-10 CSB
Make your case with your opponent without revealing another’s secret; 10 otherwise, the one who hears will disgrace you, and you’ll never live it down.
REFUSE TO GOSSIP
Proverbs 21:23 NLT
Watch your tongue and keep your mouth shut, and you will stay out of trouble.
REJECT ANY GOSSIP
Ephesians 4:29 CSB
No foul language should come from your mouth, but only what is good for building up someone in need, so that it gives grace to those who hear.
Proverbs 11:12-13 CSB
Whoever shows contempt for his neighbor lacks sense, but a person with understanding keeps silent. 13 A gossip goes around revealing a secret, but a trustworthy person keeps a confidence.
REDIRECT RELATIONALLY
Matthew 12:36-37 CSB
I tell you that on the day of judgment people will have to account for every careless word they speak. 37 For by your words you will be acquitted, and by your words you will be condemned.
QUESTIONS FOR THE ROAD:
1. Take the Gossip Audit: What causes you to participate in gossip?
Is there anyone you’ve hurt with gossip? What steps will you take to make it right?
What practical steps can you take this week to intentionally focus your words on being “helpful” and “encouraging” to others?