Why And How Do I Pray?
Part of Alpha
February 23, 2021

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DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

1. Have you ever tried praying? How did you get on?

2. What do you think about the idea of God answering prayer?

3. In the talk, various reasons for praying are given. Which of these do you relate to and why?

4. Finish with a short prayer.


WHY AND HOW DO I PRAY?

1. WHAT IS CHRISTIAN PRAYER?

Prayer is the most important activity of our lives.

‘For through [Jesus] we both have access to the Father by one Spirit.’ (Ephesians 2:18)

To the Father

  • ‘… to your father’ (Matthew 6:6)
  • ‘… in heaven’ (v.9)

Through the Son

  • ‘I have called you friends’ (John 15:15)

By the Spirit

  • ‘… the Spirit helps us’ (Romans 8:26)

2. WHY PRAY?

Develops a relationship with God

Rewards of prayer (Matthew 6:6)

  • Presence of God
  • Peace (Philippians 4:6–7)
  • Perspective
  • Power

Results of prayer (Matthew 7:7–11)

‘When I pray, coincidences happen, and when I don’t, they don’t’ —WILLIAM TEMPLE, THE FORMER ARCHBISHOP OF CANTERBURY

3. DOES GOD ALWAYS ANSWER PRAYER?

  • Yes – you receive what you prayed for, sometimes immediately
  • No – sometimes an obvious reason why not; other times we may not understand straight away why the answer is no
  • Wait – for the right timing

4. HOW DO WE PRAY?

  • Thank you – count your blessings, not your problems
  • Sorry – confess your sins (John 13:6–10)
  • Please – ‘Give us today our daily bread’ (Matthew 6:11): ask for anything you need

5. WHEN SHOULD WE PRAY?

Anywhere, anytime

  • (Ephesians 6:18)

Alone (Matthew 6:6)

  • Regular pattern
  • Best part of the day (Mark 1:35)

With others

  • There’s power in praying together
  • ‘Where two or three are gathered in my name, there I am in their midst.’
    (Matthew 18:19)

Three simple tips:

  • Keep it real
  • Keep it simple
  • Keep it going


DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

1. Have you ever tried praying? How did you get on?

2. What do you think about the idea of God answering prayer?

3. In the talk, various reasons for praying are given. Which of these do you relate to and why?

4. Finish with a short prayer.


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