How To: Repairing Relationships Week 4, February 6, 2022, "Pardon You. Pardon Me.," Josh Cadwell, Victory Christian Church
February 6, 2022

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One of our common themes over the past few weeks has been:
Treating people right is critical to following Jesus.

By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” —John 13:35 NIV

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Love is not easily irritated or quick to take offense. —1 Corinthians 13:5 TPT

We are only as

as our core relationships are .

When we ignore or avoid the past…

We

the people who wronged us to their into our .

Reconciliation:
The restoration of friendly relations

katallassó (kat-al-las’-so)
Original Word: καταλλάσσω
Definition: to reconcile, to change, exchange, the word implies a completely new relationship

But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us. —Romans 5:8 NIV

Over the past few weeks, we’ve been praying these prayers to begin the repair and reconciliation process:

“Heavenly Father, I pray that you bless

today. Help me see the way that you do.”

“Heavenly Father, please show me where I was at fault.”

“And when you pray, do not be like the hypocrites, for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the street corners to be seen by others. —Matthew 6:5 NIV

hypocrite:
Someone that is more interested or more preoccupiedwith fixing other people than fixing themselves.

9“This, then, is how you should pray:

“‘Our Father in heaven,
hallowed be your name,
10your kingdom come,
your will be done,
on earth as it is in heaven. —Matthew 6:9-10 NIV

forgive us our sins, as we have forgiven those who sin against us. —Matthew 6:12 NLT

áphesis (af’-es-is)
Original Word: ἄφεσις, εως, ἡ
Definition: a sending away, a letting go, a release, pardon, complete forgiveness

I will choose

.

pardon

How far into the future do you intend to carry the hurt in your past?

How long do you plan to allow the people who mistreated you to influcence you?

Reassembly always begins with us, regardless of who initiated the fuss.

When I

what you did to me to my response, I’m allowing to control me… not .

If you forgive those who sin against you, your heavenly Father will forgive you. But if you refuse to forgive others, your Father will not forgive your sins. —Matthew 6:14-15 NLT

I will get back to, not get back at.

“Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.” —Luke 23:34 NIV

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