Childish Things: It’s Not My Fault Week 2 Study Guide

Looking Back

Last week we learned what the Bible had to say about being mature in Christ? Were you able to identify any biblical practices that will help you mature? Give an example.

Connect
Have you ever been blamed for something you didn’t do? How did that make you feel? What was your first reaction?

Describe a time where you found yourself blaming someone for something you knew deep-down was your own fault.

Engage

Read Genesis 3:1-13.
In this passage, the serpent in the garden cleverly deceived Adam and Eve into eating the fruit from the tree in the middle of the garden. Both clearly understood this was wrong, yet they disobeyed anyway.

Starting in verse 9, describe how God confronted Adam and Eve about their disobedience.

What were their responses back to God? Was this response appropriate? Explain.

Continue reading Genesis 3:14-19. What was God’s reaction to their response? Why do you think God responded that way?

Read 2 Corinthians 5:21.
According to Paul in this passage, Jesus takes a unique approach to handling blame. Although he was without sin (blameless) what did he choose to do with our sin? What benefit did we receive from His action?

According to Scott’s message, what compels us to want to blame others for our own faults? What consequences can result from applying blame to others? Describe a time where you experienced some of these consequences.

Apply

In his message, Scott tells us that blaming is contagious and it fosters others to do the same in response. In the same way, confession and accountability are also contagious. What are other things we can do to eliminate blame from our lives?

Is there an area in your life where the consequence of blaming others may be inhibiting your ability heal a relationship or to move on from a difficult situation? What are your next steps?

Pray together

Lord, we confess that it is within our nature to want to blame others for things that are completely or partially our fault. We realize that this behavior inhibits our ability to have an intimate relationship with you. Help us to eliminate blame from our lives. Help us to take 100% responsibility for what we are responsible for and break the cycle of “blame-shifting” that is so common in our world, even in the church. We are grateful for the love you have shown us. Amen.