Choices Have Consequences

2 Samuel 2:12-32
John Pallanes, Associate Pastor

Big Idea: Proverbs 3:5-6. “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.”

2 Samuel 2:12-32
12 Abner the son of Ner, and the servants of Ish-bosheth the son of Saul, went out from Mahanaim to Gibeon.13 And Joab the son of Zeruiah and the servants of David went out and met them at the pool of Gibeon. And they sat down, the one on the one side of the pool, and the other on the other side of the pool.14 And Abner said to Joab, “Let the young men arise and compete before us.” And Joab said, “Let them arise.”15 Then they arose and passed over by number, twelve for Benjamin and Ish-bosheth the son of Saul, and twelve of the servants of David.16 And each caught his opponent by the head and thrust his sword in his opponent’s side, so they fell down together. Therefore that place was called Helkath-hazzurim, which is at Gibeon.17 And the battle was very fierce that day. And Abner and the men of Israel were beaten before the servants of David.18 And the three sons of Zeruiah were there, Joab, Abishai, and Asahel. Now Asahel was as swift of foot as a wild gazelle.19 And Asahel pursued Abner, and as he went, he turned neither to the right hand nor to the left from following Abner.20 Then Abner looked behind him and said, “Is it you, Asahel?” And he answered, “It is I.”21 Abner said to him, “Turn aside to your right hand or to your left, and seize one of the young men and take his spoil.” But Asahel would not turn aside from following him. 22 And Abner said again to Asahel, “Turn aside from following me. Why should I strike you to the ground? How then could I lift up my face to your brother Joab?”23 But he refused to turn aside. Therefore Abner struck him in the stomach with the butt of his spear, so that the spear came out at his back. And he fell there and died where he was. And all who came to the place where Asahel had fallen and died, stood still.24 But Joab and Abishai pursued Abner. And as the sun was going down they came to the hill of Ammah, which lies before Giah on the way to the wilderness of Gibeon.25 And the people of Benjamin gathered themselves together behind Abner and became one group and took their stand on the top of a hill.26 Then Abner called to Joab, “Shall the sword devour forever? Do you not know that the end will be bitter? How long will it be before you tell your people to turn from the pursuit of their brothers?”27 And Joab said, “As God lives, if you had not spoken, surely the men would not have given up the pursuit of their brothers until the morning.”28 So Joab blew the trumpet, and all the men stopped and pursued Israel no more, nor did they fight anymore.29 And Abner and his men went all that night through the Arabah. They crossed the Jordan, and marching the whole morning, they came to Mahanaim.30 Joab returned from the pursuit of Abner. And when he had gathered all the people together, there were missing from David’s servants nineteen men besides Asahel.31 But the servants of David had struck down of Benjamin 360 of Abner’s men. 32 And they took up Asahel and buried him in the tomb of his father, which was at Bethlehem. And Joab and his men marched all night, and the day broke upon them at Hebron.

I. Follow the leader: Judah vs Israel (vv. 12-16)

A. Pick your champions

B. The character of leadership:

1. Good Leaders: Moses, David, Samuel, Paul, Jesus. (cf. James 4:10)
James 4:10
10 Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will exalt you.

2. Bad Leaders: Most of the Kings, Saul, Herod, priests, today’s false teachers. (cf. Proverbs 16:18)
Proverbs 16:18
18 Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall.

II. Misdirected (vv. 17-23)

A. Beginning of a long war between Israel and Judah (cf. 2 Samuel 3:1)
2 Samuel 3:1
1 There was a long war between the house of Saul and the house of David. And David grew stronger and stronger, while the house of Saul became weaker and weaker.

B. Blind Pursuits (cf. Philippians 3:19; Hebrews 2:1-3)
Philippians 3:19
19 Their end is destruction, their god is their belly, and they glory in their shame, with minds set on earthly things.

Hebrews 2:1-3
1 Therefore we must pay much closer attention to what we have heard, lest we drift away from it.2 For since the message declared by angels proved to be reliable, and every transgression or disobedience received a just retribution3 how shall we escape if we neglect such a great salvation? It was declared at first by the Lord, and it was attested to us by those who heard

III. A Change of Heart (vv. 24-32)

A. The chase continues (cf. 1 Thessalonians 5:15)
1 Thessalonians 5:15
15 See that no one repays anyone evil for evil, but always seek to do good to one another and to everyone.

B. Consequences determined by behaviors

1. “Or do you to know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God?” (cf. 1 Corinthians 6:9a)

C. The circle game…

Final Thought: Matthew 7:13-14 “Enter by the narrow gate. For the gate is wide and the way is easy that leads to destruction, and those who enter by it are many. For the gate is narrow and the way is hard that leads to life, and those who find it are few.”

LIFE GOES ON / CHOICES MATTER