The Abraham Story Part 6:
Abraham and Lot Separate
Michael Ryan Stotler
Part of Ecclesiastes—The Quest for Meaning
March 24, 2025

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The motif of the brothers—or the sisters or the parents and their children—is the Bible’s way of exploring communal sin. It represents the inability of tribes, families, and whole communities to live together as one and share the blessings of Eden. —Tim Mackie, The Bible Project

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Bibliography

https://bibleproject.com/classroom/abraham

Middleton, J. Richard. Abraham’s Silence: The Binding of Isaac, the Suffering of Job, and How to Talk Back to God. Grand Rapids, MI: Baker Academic: A Division of Baker Publishing Group, 2021.

Cotter, David W. Genesis. Edited by Jerome T. Walsh, Chris Franke, and David W. Cotter. Berit Olam Studies in Hebrew Narrative and Poetry. Collegeville, MN: The Liturgical Press, 2003.

Josephus, Flavius, and William Whiston. The Works of Josephus: Complete and Unabridged. Peabody: Hendrickson, 1987.


Bible Study: Abram and Lot Separate

Day 1: Returning to Worship and Reorienting to God
Read: Genesis 13:1-4

After his time in Egypt, Abram returns to Bethel, where he had previously built an altar and worshiped God. This return is significant—it represents repentance and realignment with God’s promises. Abram comes back to a place of worship, seeking God’s guidance as he navigates the challenges ahead.

Reflection:
- Have you ever found yourself needing to return to a place of spiritual renewal after a period of wandering?
- What are the “altars” in your life—places, habits, or moments where you reconnect with God?
- How does worship shape your decisions?

Hebrew Word Study:
- Kaved (כָּבֵד) – Translated as “heavy” (Genesis 13:2), it refers both to physical weight and social status. Abram is “heavy” with wealth, but this abundance carries moral complications. How do we handle the “heaviness” of blessings responsibly?


Day 2: Conflict and the Challenge of Unity
Read: Genesis 13:5-9

Abram and Lot’s growing wealth leads to conflict between their herdsmen. The land cannot sustain them together, and their possessions, rather than uniting them, cause division. Abram, acting with humility and generosity, allows Lot to choose first, prioritizing peace over personal gain.

Reflection:
- Have you experienced conflict due to material possessions or personal ambitions? How did you handle it?
- How does Abram’s approach reflect trust in God rather than self-interest?
- What can we learn from his willingness to let go for the sake of peace?

Hebrew Word Study:
- Ekhad (אֶחַד) – “One” (Genesis 13:6). Abram and Lot struggle to live “as one,” reminding us that unity is often challenged by abundance and self-interest. How can we pursue unity despite differences?


Day 3: Lot’s Choice and the Lure of Egypt
Read: Genesis 13:10-11

Lot chooses the well-watered Jordan Valley, which is compared to both the Garden of the Lord (Eden) and Egypt. However, this seemingly perfect land will soon be the site of great destruction. His choice, based on appearance rather than faith, leads him toward Sodom and Gomorrah.

Reflection:
- How do you make decisions? Are they based on what “looks good” or on seeking God’s will?
- In what ways are we tempted to return to “Egypt”—places of comfort and compromise rather than faith and obedience?
- How can we seek discernment in making choices that honor God?

Hebrew Word Study:
- Ra’ah (רָאַה) – “Saw” (Genesis 13:10). Lot “sees” the Jordan Valley and judges it based on appearance, much like Eve in Genesis 3:6. How often do we rely on sight rather than faith?


Day 4: Applying the Lesson—Trusting God with Our Choices
Read: Proverbs 3:5-6; 2 Corinthians 5:7

Abram and Lot’s story teaches us about faith, humility, and decision-making. While Lot chooses based on appearances, Abram trusts God to provide. This trust leads to blessings beyond what he could have foreseen.

Reflection:
- Where is God calling you to trust Him rather than relying on what seems best in your own eyes?
- Are there areas in your life where you need to step back, as Abram did, and allow God to direct your path?
- How can you cultivate a heart that values faith over material gain?

Challenge:
Pray and reflect on a current decision or conflict in your life. Ask God for wisdom and commit to trusting Him rather than leaning on your own understanding.


Looking Ahead:
Next week’s study will build on this theme, exploring how our choices shape our journey with God. Take time to reflect on how faith influences your daily decisions and relationships.