Extraordinary Relationships
Part 3: Marriage and Money
Pastor Ken Henderson
Part of Message Outlines
February 18, 2024

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February 18, 2024


Part 3: Marriage and Money

(Luke 11:17) Jesus knew their thoughts and said to them: “Any kingdom
divided against itself will be ruined, and a house divided against itself
will fall.”

1) Decide who is going to be of your finances.

(Psalm 127:1-2 MSG) If God doesn’t build the house, the builders only build shacks. If God doesn’t guard the city, the night watchman might as well nap. It’s useless to rise early and go to bed late, and work your worried fingers to the bone. Don’t you know He enjoys giving rest to those He loves?

  • Manage your money according to .

    (2 Corinthians 9:7) Each of you should give what you have decided in your heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.

    (Proverbs 21:20 NKJV) There is desirable treasure, And oil in the dwelling of the wise, But a foolish man squanders it.

    (Proverbs 22:7) The rich rule over the poor, and the borrower is slave to the lender.

    2) Respect your spouse’s .

    (1 Peter 2:17) Show proper respect to everyone, love the family of believers, fear God, honor the emperor.

    What is your Money Language?

    The


  • The Driver communicates love by showing what money has done to improve the lives of those around them.
  • The greatest weakness of this money language is that Drivers can be overly dependent on money for their self-esteem.

    The

  • The Analytic communicates love by saving, looking out for the future well-being of their loved ones.
  • The weakness of Analytics is that they tend to be unyielding and legalistic regarding budgeting and money issues.

    The

  • The Amiable communicates love by sharing what they have with those around them.
  • The weakness is that while Amiables are generous and good-hearted, they are often poor money managers and may lack long-range planning skills.

    The

  • The Expressive communicates love by shopping, buying, and spending to gain acceptance.
  • This language can be used in a negative way to hide feelings of pain, insecurity, or incompetence.

    3) .

    (Amos 3:3 NLT) Can two people walk together without agreeing on the direction?

  • An unhealthy practice is when significant financial decisions are made without the input, knowledge and/or consent of both.

    4) Equal , , and .

    (Genesis 2:24) That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.



    All scripture is from the New International Version unless otherwise noted. Find the outline with answers on the Bible app: YouVersion/Events/questCHURCH