In a Relationship

Sermon Summary

In “In a Relationship,” Pastor Randy draws a powerful parallel between his love for his wife and our relationship with God. Through heartfelt storytelling and Scripture, he shows that love—true love—is more than words; it’s demonstrated daily through intentional time, sacrificial service, and joyful obedience. Just as he desires to please his wife, Pastor Randy urges believers to live in a way that pleases God, not out of obligation, but out of love. Ultimately, we’re reminded that God has already shown His love by sending Jesus—and He desires a personal, deep, and active relationship with us in return.

Three Key Points

Love is Demonstrated, not just Declared

Just like in marriage, love for God is shown through daily actions, not just words. Our love should be visible in how we live and obey.

Relationship Priority

Our relationship with God should reflect a deep desire to please Him, serve Him, and spend intentional time in His presence.

Obedience Is an Expression of Love

Jesus made it clear: those who love Him will keep His commandments. Obedience isn’t about rules; it’s a response to relationship.

Discussion Questions

How would you describe your relationship with God right now—more like a contract, a casual friendship, or a committed love relationship? Why?

Reflecting on your daily life, what practical actions demonstrate your love for God? Are there areas where you find a gap between your words and actions?

Pastor Randy shared his experience that true happiness came when he stopped pursuing personal desires and fully pursued his relationship with God. How have you experienced or struggled with this principle in your own life?

Read John 14:21 and Matthew 22:37-38. What do these passages teach us about love and obedience in a relationship with God?

What’s one way you’ve recently demonstrated love for God through your actions—and where do you feel you could grow?

Practical Application Challenge

Daily Love Check-In

Each morning this week, pray and ask: “God, how can I serve You today?” Then act on whatever He puts on your heart—big or small.

Say It Like You Mean It

At least once each day this week, speak directly to God and say, “I love You.” Then reflect: What does that love look like in action today?