Small Group Guide: Radical Humility in Church Life
Part of Romans
June 8, 2025

Opening Prayer:

Begin with a prayer asking God to open hearts and minds to the message of radical humility and unity in Christ.

Key Takeaways:

  1. Radical humility is the foundation for love and unity in the church.
  2. Paul provides practical ways to practice radical humility in Romans 12:10-16.
  3. The church is called to a level of commitment similar to that of soldiers in the military.
  4. Resisting cultural norms through blessing persecutors and practicing radical love is essential.
  5. Unity and love in the church can only be achieved through the work of the Holy Spirit and following Jesus.

Discussion Questions:

  1. What does “radical humility” mean to you, and why is it essential for fostering love and unity in the church?

  2. Paul provides a list of practical ways to practice humility in Romans 12:10-16. Which of these do you find most challenging, and why?

  3. The sermon compares church commitment to military service. How does this analogy challenge your view of church membership and involvement?

  4. Discuss a time when you struggled to “bless those who persecute you” (Romans 12:14). How can we practically apply this teaching in our daily lives?

  5. How does radical humility and unity in the church serve as a witness to non-believers?

  6. In what ways do you see our current culture opposing the kind of radical church life described in the sermon?

Practical Applications:

  1. This week, choose one aspect from Paul’s list in Romans 12:10-16 to focus on improving in your life.

  2. Identify someone who has hurt or offended you, and commit to praying blessings over them daily for the next week.

  3. Reflect on your level of commitment to your church family. What is one step you can take to deepen your involvement and connection?

  4. Practice preferring others in honor (Romans 12:10) by intentionally highlighting and praising the contributions of others in your church or small group.

  5. Share with the group one area where you struggle with humility, and ask for prayer and accountability in growing in this area.

Closing Prayer:

End the session by praying for each other, asking God to help cultivate radical humility, love, and unity within the group and the broader church community.

Here’s a 5-day Bible reading plan and devotional guide based on Radical Humility:

Day 1: Radical Humility

Reading: Romans 12:3-8

Devotional: In a world that often celebrates self-promotion, Paul’s words in Romans 12 challenge us to embrace radical humility. This isn’t about thinking less of ourselves, but thinking of ourselves less. As we read about the various gifts given to members of the body of Christ, reflect on your own unique abilities. How can you use these gifts not for personal gain, but to build up the church and glorify God? Remember, true humility recognizes that all we have comes from God. Today, practice preferring others in honor (Romans 12:10). Look for opportunities to elevate and celebrate the gifts of those around you, fostering a spirit of unity and mutual appreciation within your faith community.

Day 2: Love That Transforms

Reading: Romans 12:9-13

Devotional: Love is more than a feeling; it’s a transformative force that shapes our interactions and communities. Paul’s practical list in Romans 12 paints a picture of love in action. It’s sincere, devoted, and honors others above ourselves. As you meditate on these verses, consider how your love for others reflects Christ’s love for you. Are you rejoicing with those who rejoice and mourning with those who mourn (v.15)? Love calls us to share in the emotional journeys of others, stepping out of our comfort zones to truly connect. Today, challenge yourself to show love in a tangible way to someone in your life, especially someone you might find difficult to love. Remember, it’s through such radical love that the world will recognize us as Christ’s disciples (John 13:35).

Day 3: Perseverance in Faith

Reading: Romans 12:12, Hebrews 12:1-3

Devotional: Life’s journey is often marked by trials and tribulations, yet Paul encourages us to “be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer” (Romans 12:12). This trio of virtues forms a powerful foundation for perseverance. Hope isn’t mere optimism, but a confident expectation in God’s promises. Patience in affliction goes beyond endurance; it’s about maintaining faith and character amid struggles. And prayer is our lifeline to God, keeping us connected to our source of strength. As you read Hebrews 12:1-3, picture yourself as a runner in the race of faith. What “weights” might be slowing you down? How can you fix your eyes more firmly on Jesus today? Remember, perseverance isn’t about gritting your teeth, but about leaning into God’s grace and the support of your faith community.

Day 4: Radical Resistance to Culture

Reading: Romans 12:2, 14-16

Devotional: The call to be “transformed by the renewing of your mind” (Romans 12:2) is a radical departure from the world’s ways. This transformation leads us to counter-cultural actions like blessing those who persecute us and associating with people of low position. Reflect on areas where your thinking might still be conformed to the patterns of this world. How can you actively renew your mind through Scripture, prayer, and community? The instruction to “bless those who persecute you” (v.14) is perhaps one of the most challenging aspects of Christian living. It goes against our natural instincts of retaliation. Today, pray for someone who has hurt or opposed you. Ask God to bless them and to give you His perspective on the situation. This radical resistance to cultural norms is a powerful testimony to the transforming power of Christ in our lives.

Day 5: Unity in Diversity

Reading: Romans 12:4-5, 1 Corinthians 12:12-27

Devotional: The body of Christ is beautifully diverse, yet called to profound unity. Like a well-functioning human body, each part has its unique role, yet all work together for the common good. As you read these passages, consider your place within the body of Christ. How are you using your specific gifts to contribute to the whole? Unity doesn’t mean uniformity; it means valuing the differences that make each member unique while working towards a shared purpose. Today, reach out to someone in your faith community whose gifts or background differ from yours. Seek to understand and appreciate their perspective and role. Remember, our unity in diversity is a powerful witness to the world of God’s reconciling love. As we embrace this unity with radical humility, we create a spiritual family where each person is esteemed and Christ is glorified.