A Life Worth Wanting
Rev. Brandon Blacksten
Part of Life Together – What it Looks Like and Why it Matters
July 16, 2023

I rejoice in the Lord greatly that now at last you have revived your concern for me; indeed, you were concerned for me but had no opportunity to show it. Not that I am referring to being in need, for I have learned to be content with whatever I have. I know what it is to have little, and I know what it is to have plenty. In any and all circumstances I have learned the secret of being well-fed and of going hungry, of having plenty and of being in need. I can do all things through him who strengthens me. —Philippians 4:10-13

Week 1: We are better

!

“Community is the most ‘overpromised and underdelivered’ aspect of the church today.” —Ruth Haley Barton

When we say the word “fellowship” in Acts 2:42, what we mean is

!

Five to ten years after starting the Philippian church, Paul writes from

to this church that has been caring for him.

Week 2: The Christian life is a public act of living as a

of heaven.

Kingdom citizenship requires sacrifice, and Holy Spirit power to achieve a

by living like Jesus. (Philippians 2:5-7)

Christ-like sacrificial service is how the Philippians are to live a common life of humility and

.

Week 3: Despite his pedigree, Paul considered it all

compared with knowing Jesus. (Phil. 3:8)

It doesn’t matter how successful we are if we’re seeking the wrong

.

Pursuing the way of Jesus

enables us all to seek the things that matter most.

What We Seek

Much of our behavior flows from our

.

Our deepest desires come from

.

These good soul-desires are easily influenced by the

and media around us.

“Every artist has experienced it. They may have had a lifelong desire to tell the truth, to make art that expresses something important. Yet they have a competing desire to sell their work in the marketplace, to be accepted, to be praised, to get reviews, to stay on top of trends that can change from year to year, month to month, day to day.” —Luke Burgis

Our unhealthy attempts to chase status, wealth, attention, and power come from desire that has been

.

“Thin” desires drive us

from community and into a life focused on accumulation.

We have to

ourselves to want things that are really worth wanting.

A Life Worth Wanting

At the end of his letter, Paul gives a series of instructions for “standing firm” and living

. (Phil. 4:4)

Despite being in prison, Paul models

in all circumstances and focusing on others. (Phil. 4:5)

Joy does not depend on external circumstances, but on God’s

.

When faced with worries, we offer our requests to God with

. (Phil. 4:6)

Our

shapes our desire.

As we give thanks and trust God with our needs, our desires are transformed, and we have

. (Phil. 4:7)

By focusing on what is true and

, we learn to desire things worth wanting and let go of the rest. (Phil. 4:8-9)

“We have to give up—day by day, hour by hour, moment by moment—our little fiefdoms, our petty preferences, our exaggerations, our bigotry, our resistance to mercy, our vindictiveness, our craving for attention, our hiding from our own gifts and call…” —Elaine A. Heath

The Secret to Contentedness

Paul gives thanks for the Philippians’ gift, but also demonstrates the power of being

. (Phil. 4:10-11)

We can learn to be content whether we have much or little because

is our strength. (Phil. 4:12-13)

“I can get irritated when my computer responds slower than I think it ought where Paul was learning to live without food and shelter and safety.” —Scott McKnight

Philippians 4:13 is not about self-actualization or achievement; it’s about enduring

.

With Christ’s power and

, we can endure all kinds of hardship.

A transforming community helps us

thin desires from those given by God.

“Ask me not where I live or what I like to eat…ask me what I think I am living for, in detail, and ask me what I think is keeping me from living fully for the thing I want to live for.” —Thomas Merton

At the core of life together is God’s

in Jesus Christ. (Phil. 2:5-7, 2:3-4, 4:23)

To have a deep life together, we have to be willing to give

.

Action Steps

Train your

by focusing on the good, beautiful, and true. the things that train you to be discontent.

Identify one situation you need to

God with. Offer it to God with gratitude.

Ask a trusted person to help you

which desires are worth pursuing.