Foundations For Forgiveness
Matt Crain

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What we’ve learned so far…

  1. As “image-bearers”, we are to God alone and Him well
  2. Sin, God’s judgment, and God’s mercy are all very .
  3. One example of sin’s impact is .
  4. The one thing we all need but never want to give or receive: .

[10] Create in me a clean heart, O God,
and renew a right spirit within me. (ESV)
- Psalm 51:10

[16] For you will not delight in sacrifice, or I would give it;
you will not be pleased with a burnt offering.
[17] The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit;
a broken and contrite heart, O God, you will not despise. (ESV)
- Psalm 51:16-17

[21] Then Peter came up and said to him, “Lord, how often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?” [22] Jesus said to him, “I do not say to you seven times, but seventy-seven times. [23] “Therefore the kingdom of heaven may be compared to a king who wished to settle accounts with his servants. [24] When he began to settle, one was brought to him who owed him ten thousand talents. [25] And since he could not pay, his master ordered him to be sold, with his wife and children and all that he had, and payment to be made. [26] So the servant fell on his knees, imploring him, ‘Have patience with me, and I will pay you everything.’ [27] And out of pity for him, the master of that servant released him and forgave him the debt. [28] But when that same servant went out, he found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred denarii, and seizing him, he began to choke him, saying, ‘Pay what you owe.’ [29] So his fellow servant fell down and pleaded with him, ‘Have patience with me, and I will pay you.’ [30] He refused and went and put him in prison until he should pay the debt. [31] When his fellow servants saw what had taken place, they were greatly distressed, and they went and reported to their master all that had taken place. [32] Then his master summoned him and said to him, ‘You wicked servant! I forgave you all that debt because you pleaded with me. [33] And should not you have had mercy on your fellow servant, as I had mercy on you?’ [34] And in anger his master delivered him to the jailers, until he should pay all his debt. [35] So also my heavenly Father will do to every one of you, if you do not forgive your brother from your heart.” (ESV)
- Matthew 18:21-35

By today’s standards, it would take the man over

lifetimes to repay the debt.
The point: it’s !

[34] And Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.” And they cast lots to divide his garments. (ESV)
- Luke 23:34

Forgive: to regard by faith (from the heart) your sin and others’ sin as paid for by the

of Jesus.
Forgiveness requires person; reconciliation requires at least .

Jesus, today I choose to forgive

.

[15] “If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault, between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained your brother. [16] But if he does not listen, take one or two others along with you, that every charge may be established by the evidence of two or three witnesses. [17] If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church. And if he refuses to listen even to the church, let him be to you as a Gentile and a tax collector. [18] Truly, I say to you, whatever you bind on earth shall be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven. [19] Again I say to you, if two of you agree on earth about anything they ask, it will be done for them by my Father in heaven. [20] For where two or three are gathered in my name, there am I among them.” (ESV)
- Matthew 18:15-20

Reconciliation: taking the most

actions needed to restore the relationship.

[16] From now on, therefore, we regard no one according to the flesh. Even though we once regarded Christ according to the flesh, we regard him thus no longer. [17] Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come. [18] All this is from God, who through Christ reconciled us to himself and gave us the ministry of reconciliation; [19] that is, in Christ God was reconciling the world to himself, not counting their trespasses against them, and entrusting to us the message of reconciliation. [20] Therefore, we are ambassadors for Christ, God making his appeal through us. We implore you on behalf of Christ, be reconciled to God. [21] For our sake he made him to be sin who knew no sin, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God. (ESV)
- 2 Corinthians 5:16-21

What next step do I need to take to reconciled with somone for the glory of God, your good, and others’ joy?

For further reading on how to live in redemptive community: https://www.esv.org/Romans+13/


Pastor Matt & Katrina Crain

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Pastor Matt would love to get to know you better! His email is matt@harvestchurchsi.com.