1 Samuel 25 - Beauty and Wisdom verse Evil and Foolish.
The Death of Samuel
25:1 Samuel died, and all Israel assembled and mourned him. They buried him at his home in Ramah. Then David left and went down to the desert of Paran. —1 Samuel 25:1 (NET)
Samuel’s Death:
- One Verse.
- Where has he been?
- How is he honored?
Men and women of God can be removed from man’s spotlight, but their influence cannot be removed by man.
1 & 2 Samuel is titled as is because it is the result of Samuel’s ministry.
We tend to honor people when it is too late. Why is this?
David, Nabal, and Abigail:
25:2 There was a man in Maon whose business was in Carmel. This man was very wealthy; he owned three thousand sheep and a thousand goats. At that time he was shearing his sheep in Carmel. 25:3 The man’s name was Nabal, and his wife’s name was Abigail. She was both wise and beautiful, but the man was harsh and his deeds were evil. He was a Calebite. —1 Samuel 25:2–3 (NET)
What do we learn about Nabal?
- Where he lived - Southern part of
- He was very wealthy.
- His lineage -
- He was a fool - harsh and evil.
- He was married to Abigail.
Abigail:
We find in this passage two characteristics that are used very strategically throughout scripture in regard to women.
1:
- Sarah, Rebekah, Rachel, Abigail, Bathsheba, Tamar, Abishag, Vashti, Esther, Job’s daughters… (3200-3500 Characters in the Bible)
2:
- Abigail.
Summary:
- Nabal comes from a family that has displayed great faith.
- Nabal is very successful, yet infamous for being a fool.
- Abigail is highlighted in the text as a very special woman.
25:4 When David heard in the desert that Nabal was shearing his sheep, 25:5 he sent ten servants, saying to them, “Go up to Carmel to see Nabal and give him greetings in my name. 25:6 Then you will say to my brother, “Peace to you and your house! Peace to all that is yours! 25:7 Now I hear that they are shearing sheep for you. When your shepherds were with us, we neither insulted them nor harmed them the whole time they were in Carmel. 25:8 Ask your own servants; they can tell you! May my servants find favor in your sight, for we have come at the time of a holiday. Please provide us—your servants and your son David—with whatever you can spare.”
25:9 So David’s servants went and spoke all these words to Nabal in David’s name. Then they paused. —1 Samuel 25:4–9 (NET)
1: David goes to Nabal at the best possible time for Nabal to respond to David’s needs.
2: Based upon what David says, we can assume that David and his men have spent time here in the past, most likely protecting them from raiders/philistines.
3: This request would not of been uncommon or foreign during this time period.
25:10 But Nabal responded to David’s servants, “Who is David, and who is this son of Jesse? This is a time when many servants are breaking away from their masters! 25:11 Should I take my bread and my water and my meat that I have slaughtered for my shearers and give them to these men? I don’t even know where they came from!” —1 Samuel 25:10–11 (NET)
Nabal makes 3 specific mistakes with David:
1: “Who is David? Who is this son of Jesse?”
- Who does this remind us of?
- Temptation will feast off our TRIGGER POINTS if we are not careful.
- Was this something that that potentially made David irate? He withheld his rage from Saul, the anointed one, but Nabal?
There is also a righteous justification to be angry at Nabal because he is breaking two commandments from God.
2: “My bread…my water…my meat…my shearers”
- God specifically warned the Israelites against this:
8:11 Be sure you do not forget the LORD your God by not keeping his commandments, ordinances, and statutes that I am giving you today. 8:12 When you eat your fill, when you build and occupy good houses, 8:13 when your cattle and flocks increase, when you have plenty of silver and gold, and when you have abundance of everything, 8:14 be sure you do not feel self-important and forget the LORD your God who brought you from the land of Egypt, the place of slavery, 8:15 and who brought you through the great, fearful desert of venomous serpents and scorpions, an arid place with no water. He made water flow from a flint rock and 8:16 fed you in the desert with manna (which your ancestors had never before known) so that he might by humbling you test you and eventually bring good to you. 8:17 Be careful not to say, “My own ability and skill have gotten me this wealth.” 8:18 You must remember the LORD your God, for he is the one who gives ability to get wealth; if you do this he will confirm his covenant that he made by oath to your ancestors, even as he has to this day. —Deuteronomy 8:11–18 (NET)
- Nabal is directly breaking this commandment from God.
3: Nabal had a
15:7 If a fellow Israelite from one of your villages in the land that the LORD your God is giving you should be poor, you must not harden your heart or be insensitive to his impoverished condition. —Deuteronomy 15:7 (NET)
- It is very easy for us to justify our anger with someone by standing on a moral high ground.
25:12 So David’s servants went on their way. When they had returned, they came and told David all these things. 25:13 Then David instructed his men, “Each of you strap on your sword!” So each one strapped on his sword, and David also strapped on his sword. About four hundred men followed David up, while two hundred stayed behind with the equipment. —1 Samuel 25:12–13 (NET)
One page of text separate David showing restraint and David seeking vengeance.
Notice how Nabal challenges David when David is in a time of peace with Saul.
We cannot afford to let our guard down; else we fall into the trap of sin.
25:14 But one of the servants told Nabal’s wife Abigail, “David sent messengers from the desert to greet our lord, but he screamed at them. 25:15 These men were very good to us. They did not insult us, nor did we sustain any loss during the entire time we were together in the field. 25:16 Both night and day they were a protective wall for us the entire time we were with them, while we were tending our flocks. 25:17 Now be aware of this, and see what you can do. For disaster has been planned for our lord and his entire household. He is such a wicked person that no one tells him anything!”
25:18 So Abigail quickly took two hundred loaves of bread, two containers of wine, five prepared sheep, five seahs of roasted grain, a hundred bunches of raisins, and two hundred lumps of pressed figs. She loaded them on donkeys 25:19 and said to her servants, “Go on ahead of me. I will come after you.” But she did not tell her husband Nabal.
25:20 Riding on her donkey, she went down under cover of the mountain. David and his men were coming down to meet her, and she encountered them. 25:21 Now David had been thinking, “In vain I guarded everything that belonged to this man in the desert. I didn’t take anything from him. But he has repaid my good with evil. 25:22 God will severely punish David, if I leave alive until morning even one male from all those who belong to him!”
25:23 When Abigail saw David, she got down quickly from the donkey, threw herself down before David, and bowed to the ground. 25:24 Falling at his feet, she said, “My lord, I accept all the guilt! But please let your female servant speak with my lord! Please listen to the words of your servant! 25:25 My lord should not pay attention to this wicked man Nabal. He simply lives up to his name! His name means ‘fool,’ and he is indeed foolish! But I, your servant, did not see the servants my lord sent.
25:26 “Now, my lord, as surely as the LORD lives and as surely as you live, it is the LORD who has kept you from shedding blood and taking matters into your own hands. Now may your enemies and those who seek to harm my lord be like Nabal. 25:27 Now let this present that your servant has brought to my lord be given to the servants who follow my lord. 25:28 Please forgive the sin of your servant, for the LORD will certainly establish the house of my lord, because my lord fights the battles of the LORD. May no evil be found in you all your days! … 25:32 Then David said to Abigail, “Praised be the LORD, the God of Israel, who has sent you this day to meet me! 25:33 Praised be your good judgment! May you yourself be rewarded for having prevented me this day from shedding blood and taking matters into my own hands! —1 Samuel 25:14–28, 32-33 (NET)
Abigail’s wisdom saves herself, the house of Nabal, and David’s integrity.