Always Fits, Never Returned
Pastor Kirk
Part of Stand Alone Sermons
May 13, 2025

Introduction

This sermon from Ephesians 5 explores the dynamics of marriage, emphasizing the biblical model of a husband’s role. Pastor Kirk challenges men, particularly husbands, to reflect Christ’s love for the church by nurturing, loving, and leading their families. As a celebration of Mother’s Day, the sermon also highlights the value and significance of mothers in our lives and church community.


Leaving with No Regret


  • Marriage is designed to glorify , through mutual love and respect.


“In order to be successful in this relationship, we are called upon to leave behind that which the world calls gain and we have to do so with no regret.” —Pastor Kirk


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Leading with Divine Calling

  • Headship is a calling in marriage. Men are called to lead with service, reflecting Christ’s relationship with the church.


  • To lead, men must first be by Christ, ensuring their guidance is both spiritual and sacrificial.


“To lead, you must first be led of Christ.” —Pastor Kirk


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Loving with No Strings

  • Love should be , always showing tenderness and understanding, similar to how Christ loves the church.


  • The command to love is ongoing, illustrating the need to and cherish one’s spouse unconditionally.


“We are called to love, and we are to love with no strings attached, even when the other is at their worst.” —Pastor Kirk


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Conclusion

The sermon urges husbands to emulate the love of Christ: sacrificial, sanctifying, and satisfying. As we celebrate Mother’s Day, acknowledging and valuing the roles of mothers in our lives, the sermon serves as a reminder that God has equipped us to cherish and honor them daily. Embrace this biblical model in your marriage and family life, knowing it is a gift that always fits and never needs to be returned.


Reflection Questions


How does understanding marriage as a covenant rather than a contract change your approach to relationships?


In what ways can you as a husband (or future husband) improve in leading your family spiritually and with humility?


Reflect on a time when loving with no strings attached was challenging. How did Christ’s example help guide you through it?