Yes, but...
Sex is for marriage. Chastity is for singleness and, for limited times, focused prayer in marriage.
Pastor Phil Christiansen
Part of The Corinthians—Part 1
March 16, 2025

1 Corinthians 7:1-7

(1) Yes, but

. (v 1)

  • Celibacy has its place but not for everyone and not always.
  • A sexless marriage doesn’t make you super spiritual, super virtuous or a super Christian.

(2) Yes, but

. (v 2)

  • ‘Have’ is referring to sexual intercourse.
  • The only person you should be having sex with is your own spouse.
  • Sex in marriage is a safeguard against sexual immorality.

(3) Yes, but

. (v 3-4)

  • Use your authority to serve one another.
  • Focus on your spouse’s rights, not your own.
  • How can I best serve you?
  • Look for ways to be generous.
  • Your sex life together is between you two alone, no one else.

(4) Yes, but

. (v 5)

  • Don’t deprive one another.
  • Sexual intimacy is a key difference between married couples and roommates.
  • Be intentional about reconnecting with each other.

(5) Yes, but only when God’s given you

. (v 6-7)

  • Sex is part of marriage.
  • Celibacy is part of being single.
  • Being single allows you to be undivided in your devotion to the Lord.
  • Be tenacious in your season of singleness.