Colossians (Part 15): Forgiveness & Forbearance

Put On:
1. Humility (Philippians 2:3-4)
2. Gentleness (Galatians 6:1)
3. Patience

What We Do:
1. Bear with one another
2. Forgive one another (Luke 7:41-43)

Forgiveness is the personal act of releasing someone from the debt of their wrongdoing, choosing not to hold resentment or seek revenge. It involves an internal decision to let go of anger, bitterness, and the desire for retribution.

Reconciliation is the restoration of a relationship to what it was before, including mutual trust

We can always forgive, but reconciliation isn’t always possible.

Small Group Discussion Questions:

1. How has being a Christian changed the way you interact with people? Describe what your relationships would look like if you weren’t a Christian.
   

2. Read Colossians 3:12-14. The sermon mentioned that humility was not valued in ancient Greek and Roman cultures. Why do you think humility is often seen as a weakness today, and how can Christians demonstrate true humility in a culture that values self-promotion?

3. Paul says we should put on “gentleness” in verser 12. How is gentleness a Christian virtue, and what does it look like in everyday life?

4. “Patience” and “Bearing with one another” in verses 12-13 gets at this idea of being able to maintain relationship with someone despite challenges, sins, and grievances. What does this look like in the context of a church community?

5. The sermon described forgiveness as “paying the price for someone else’s sins without demanding repayment.” How does this understanding of forgiveness challenge or affirm your current approach to forgiving others?

6. What are some situations where forgiveness might not lead to full reconciliation and the restoration of a relationship? How can we navigate these situations while maintaining a forgiving heart?

7. Application: How would you like the Lord to grow you in the way you interact with others?