MARRIAGE: KNOT TYING
January 23, 2022

Knot Tying Relatable series - January 23, 2022
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Love is a

! 1 Corinthians 13

Marriage is

, but with wonderful if done well!

Once you’re married it’s not about “

” or “ ” anymore. It’s about “ ” and “ ”!

Navigating marriage is a

learning process.

I. What is marriage?
Ephesians 5:21-33 (NLT) And further, submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.
22 For wives, this means submit to your husbands as to the Lord. 23 For a husband is the head of his wife as Christ is the head of the church. He is the Savior of his body, the church. 24 As the church submits to Christ, so you wives should submit to your husbands in everything.
25 For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her 26 to make her holy and clean, washed by the cleansing of God’s word. 27 He did this to present her to himself as a glorious church without a spot or wrinkle or any other blemish. Instead, she will be holy and without fault. 28 In the same way, husbands ought to love their wives as they love their own bodies. For a man who loves his wife actually shows love for himself. 29 No one hates his own body but feeds and cares for it, just as Christ cares for the church. 30 And we are members of his body. 31 As the Scriptures say, “A man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one.” 32 This is a great mystery, but it is an illustration of the way Christ and the church are one. 33 So again I say, each man must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.

~ A sacred

between 1 God, 1 man and 1 woman.
~ An intertwined w/one another and w/God. Ecc 4:12
~ Requires (love and respect) and .

(provides opening to grow rather than control) from both the husband and wife.You are a covering for one another.

~The matter of Intimacy 1 Corinthians 7:1-6
~Marriage is NOT a place to

”FIX” OR your spouse.
III. Get to Know Your Spouse
~ Know yours AND their style.
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~ Know yours AND their language.
~ Order your

IV. Foundational Essentials for Marriage
TRUST:
Trust is a foundation and it takes lots of

to build.
Trust must be renewed every day in our actions and attitudes.
Trust increases when the woman respects and the man loves.

COMMUNICATION:
Without healthy communication most relationships

.
~What is it? sharing, listening, AND responding with kindness, to bring reconciliation, and provide stability.
“Expectations are premeditated resentments.”

~Communication is about

. Romans 14:19

Main Topics Marriages must communicate about regularly:
Finances In-Laws Children Roles and Responsibilities

GRACE AND FORGIVENESS:
Grace and forgiveness can be the culture for your marriage, but it must be chosen and practiced.
Both are gifts we give to one another that establishes peace for US.