In conflict, we tend to lose all perspective; we can see with clarity the other person’s

but are blind to our own

Reveal Answer

.

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“He

it!”

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In any conflict, the correct first question to ask is: Have I

in this?

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Confession requires

, which is hard, and is at times

Reveal Answer

, which is harder.

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Having received

, you are exponentialy more likely to extend it.

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When you become an

, you can easily slip into being someone who would withhold grace where God would not withold it.

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Conflict is

.

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When humble repentance is your starting point, a whole lot more things fit under the threshold of “offenses I can just

” (Prov. 19:11, Prov. 17:14, 1 Peter 4:8, Eph. 4:2, Col. 3:13).

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Lay down your

and rest.

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Large group study, Wednesday night from 6-7:30 in the Event Center
Corresponding chapters in The Peace Maker are ch. 4-6, pp. 75-137.