
PEOPLE AND RELATIONSHIPS: Knowing Your Expectations
PEOPLE AND RELATIONSHIPS
Knowing Your Expectations
May 1, 2022
ex·pec·ta·tion: a strong belief that something will happen or be the case in the future.
• What happens when
Matthew 22:37-39 - Jesus replied: “’Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ 38 This is the first and greatest commandment. 39 And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’”
• The mark of a growing Christ-follower is a deepening love for God AND love for people.
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• Anger comes from three basic areas: hurt, fear, and frustration.
So what can we do?
2. How can we move toward emotionally
A. Stop
Proverbs 18:2 - A fool finds no pleasure in understanding but delights in airing his own opinions.
Proverbs 18:15 - The heart of the discerning acquires knowledge; the ears of the wise seek it out.
B. Stop making
Matthew 7:1-3 – “Do not judge, or you too will be judged. 2 For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. 3 Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?”
C. Start having
Proverbs 18:15 - The heart of the discerning acquires knowledge; the ears of the wise seek it out.
Ask questions like:
• “Can you tell me more about that?”
• “Can you explain what you mean by that?”
• “I think you think
D. Start clarifying
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*Key part of understanding relationships:
It takes both
Romans 5:5 - And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured out his love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, whom he has given us.
Next Step: Who do you need to have a conversation with TODAY?