James 4:1-3

What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you? You desire but do not have, so you kill. You covet but you cannot get what you want, so you quarrel and fight. You do not have because you do not ask God. When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures.

1. Who did you quarrel with most while growing up?

2. When you quarrel do you seek to understand what desire is really motivating you?

3. Can self-assertiveness and humility co-exist? (James 4:8)

4. What might God be calling you to do as a response to this passage?
   

FOR FURTHER STUDY
The Good Fight by Les and Leslie Parrott
The Thing Beneath The Thing by Steve Carter
The Good Fight App