Enjoy Destiny
Part of Enjoy—Study in Ecclesiastes
September 20, 2020

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Ecclesiastes 6:10-7:14 (New Living Translation)
10 Everything has already been decided. It was known long ago what each person would be. So there’s no use arguing with God about your destiny.
11 The more words you speak, the less they mean. So what good are they?
12 In the few days of our meaningless lives, who knows how our days can best be spent? Our lives are like a shadow. Who can tell what will happen on this earth after we are gone?

7:1 A good reputation is more valuable than costly perfume.
And the day you die is better than the day you are born.
2 Better to spend your time at funerals than at parties.
After all, everyone dies—
so the living should take this to heart.
3 Sorrow is better than laughter,
for sadness has a refining influence on us.
4 A wise person thinks a lot about death,
while a fool thinks only about having a good time.

5 Better to be criticized by a wise person
than to be praised by a fool.
6 A fool’s laughter is quickly gone,
like thorns crackling in a fire.
This also is meaningless.
7 Extortion turns wise people into fools,
and bribes corrupt the heart.
8 Finishing is better than starting.
Patience is better than pride.
9 Control your temper,
for anger labels you a fool.

10 Don’t long for “the good old days.”
This is not wise.
11 Wisdom is even better when you have money.
Both are a benefit as you go through life.
12 Wisdom and money can get you almost anything,
but only wisdom can save your life.
13 Accept the way God does things,
for who can straighten what he has made crooked?
14 Enjoy prosperity while you can,
but when hard times strike, realize that both come from God.
Remember that nothing is certain in this life.

I. Destiny has pre-programmed limitations (vv. 10-12)
• Identity is pre-programmed

via DNA.
• Identity is pre-programmed via the soul.
is not identity or destiny.
• Disagreement is not .
II. Destiny increases the value of the present (vv. 1-4)
• Accounting for helps us to enjoy the present.
• Death is part of our .
• Sorrow shapes us joyfully in ways never can.
• People who think most about the have the greatest
impact on the present.
III. Destiny embraces reality (vv. 5-9)
• Being a person of destiny is being a .
• Resentment and anxiety result from expectations.
• Extortion and bribery seek to cover up reality with a .
• Reactionary people fail to have the of destiny.
IV. Destiny embraces the moment (vv. 10-14)
• The “ ” were never as good as we remember.
• Longing for the past means we exchanged destiny for .
• No matter our stage of life the “ ” are not behind us.
• Christian wisdom is knowing how to in difficult
circumstances.
• Being a person of destiny is having when God doesn’t do what we want.

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  1. Read Ecclesiastes 6:10-12. How does knowing that everything has been created by God change your perspective of your life and your view of yourself?
  2. Read Ecclesiastes 7:1-4. Although we do not decide when we are born, what can we do while we are living to positively impact the kingdom of God?
  3. How does having an eternal perspective that plans for the day of judgment help to ground us in the present?
  4. Read Ecclesiastes 7:5-9. Why does wishing we were someone else or being angry that our lives/circumstances aren’t different demonstrate that we do not have a proper understanding of God and his sovereignty?
  5. Read Ecclesiastes 7:10-14. How does godly wisdom help us respond properly to whatever happens in our lives? How does wisdom help us to prepare for the future?
  6. What other questions do you have about this passage of Scripture?