Piercing Questions
Timothy Adour, Ph.D.
January 15, 2023

Who are My Mother and My Brothers?

20 Then Jesus entered a house, and again a crowd gathered, so that he and his disciples were not even able to eat. 21 When his family heard about this, they went to take charge of him, for they said, “He is out of his mind.” 22 And the teachers of the law who came down from Jerusalem said, “He is possessed by Beelzebul! By the prince of demons he is driving out demons.” 23 So Jesus called them over to him and began to speak to them in parables: “How can Satan drive out Satan? 24 If a kingdom is divided against itself, that kingdom cannot stand. 25 If a house is divided against itself, that house cannot stand. 26 And if Satan opposes himself and is divided, he cannot stand; his end has come. 27 In fact, no one can enter a strong man’s house without first tying him up. Then he can plunder the strong man’s house. 28 Truly I tell you, people can be forgiven all their sins and every slander they utter, 29 but whoever blasphemes against the Holy Spirit will never be forgiven; they are guilty of an eternal sin.” 30 He said this because they were saying, “He has an impure spirit.” 31 Then Jesus’ mother and brothers arrived. Standing outside, they sent someone in to call him. 32 A crowd was sitting around him, and they told him, “Your mother and brothers are outside looking for you.” 33 “Who are my mother and my brothers?” he asked. 34 Then he looked at those seated in a circle around him and said, “Here are my mother and my brothers! 35 Whoever does God’s will is my brother and sister and mother.”
Mark 3:20-35 NIV

I. JESUS DEFINED THE BOUNDARIES OF PARENTHOOD.

  • PARENTAL AUTHORITY MUST ALWAYS BE SUBORDINATE TO THE AUTHORITY OF GOD.

II. HONOR YOUR FATHER AND MOTHER BUT GIVE YOUR ULTIMATE LOYALTY TO GOD.

“Anyone who loves their father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; anyone who loves their son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.
Matthew 10:37 NIV

  • TO HOLD ON TO THE DEPENDENCY OF THE PARENT-CHILD RELATIONSHIP IS TO VIOLATE WHAT JESUS IS SAYING.

III. JESUS CLEARLY DEFINED THE BOUNDARIES OF PARENTHOOD.

  • TO THE CHILDREN WITH THEIR OWN FAMILIES: YOUR NUMBER ONE RESPONSIBILITY IS TO YOUR SPOUSE AND/OR CHILDREN. IT IS UNBIBLICAL FOR YOU TO ALLOW YOUR PARENTS TO CONTROL YOUR LIFE.

  • TO THE PARENTS: RAISING OUR KIDS SIMPLY MEANS WE ARE CARING FOR THEM UNTIL THEY REACH AN AGE WHEN THEY BEGIN TO FOLLOW GOD’S PLAN FOR THEIR LIFE.

LET US ALL HONOR GOD AND NOT OUR OWN DESIRES, EVEN AS IT RELATES TO FAMILY.