Date: May 4th, 2025
Sermon: Dealing with Bitterness
Sermon Series: Ruth
Text: Ruth Ch.1
A
Decision
Ruth 1:1–5 NLT
“In the days when the judges ruled in Israel, a severe famine came upon the land. So a man from Bethlehem in Judah left his home and went to live in the country of Moab, taking his wife and two sons with him. The man’s name was Elimelech, and his wife was Naomi. Their two sons were Mahlon and Kilion. They were Ephrathites from Bethlehem in the land of Judah. And when they reached Moab, they settled there. Then Elimelech died, and Naomi was left with her two sons. The two sons married Moabite women. One married a woman named Orpah, and the other a woman named Ruth. But about ten years later, both Mahlon and Kilion died. This left Naomi alone, without her two sons or her husband.”
A Heart that Grows
Ruth 1:6–13 NLT
“Then Naomi heard in Moab that the Lord had blessed his people in Judah by giving them good crops again. So Naomi and her daughters-in-law got ready to leave Moab to return to her homeland. With her two daughters-in-law she set out from the place where she had been living, and they took the road that would lead them back to Judah. But on the way, Naomi said to her two daughters-in-law, “Go back to your mothers’ homes. And may the Lord reward you for your kindness to your husbands and to me. May the Lord bless you with the security of another marriage.” Then she kissed them good-bye, and they all broke down and wept. “No,” they said. “We want to go with you to your people.” But Naomi replied, “Why should you go on with me? Can I still give birth to other sons who could grow up to be your husbands? No, my daughters, return to your parents’ homes, for I am too old to marry again. And even if it were possible, and I were to get married tonight and bear sons, then what? Would you wait for…”
Ruth 1:19–22 NLT
“So the two of them continued on their journey. When they came to Bethlehem, the entire town was excited by their arrival. “Is it really Naomi?” the women asked. “Don’t call me Naomi,” she responded. “Instead, call me Mara, for the Almighty has made life very bitter for me. I went away full, but the Lord has brought me home empty. Why call me Naomi when the Lord has caused me to suffer and the Almighty has sent such tragedy upon me?” So Naomi returned from Moab, accompanied by her daughter-in-law Ruth, the young Moabite woman. They arrived in Bethlehem in late spring, at the beginning of the barley harvest.”
A Life of
and
Ruth 1:14–18 NLT
“And again they wept together, and Orpah kissed her mother-in-law good-bye. But Ruth clung tightly to Naomi. “Look,” Naomi said to her, “your sister-in-law has gone back to her people and to her gods. You should do the same.” But Ruth replied, “Don’t ask me to leave you and turn back. Wherever you go, I will go; wherever you live, I will live. Your people will be my people, and your God will be my God. Wherever you die, I will die, and there I will be buried. May the Lord punish me severely if I allow anything but death to separate us!” When Naomi saw that Ruth was determined to go with her, she said nothing more.”
Application:
How do we starve bitterness?
First, we must address how it is fed:
Feeding Bitterness
1) We live in the lie - We are stuck
2) We collect offenses
3) We share offenses
Starving Bitterness
Ephesians 4:31–32 NLT
“Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all types of evil behavior. Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.”
Starving our souls of bitterness requires that we feed our souls with something else.
1) God’s grace, love, forgiveness
2) Serve others
Life Group Questions:
Opening Question:
Can you share about a time when life didn’t go the way you expected—but someone’s loyalty, kindness, or presence made all the difference?
Read Ruth Ch.1 (prior to life group): When you read through the scripture take note of anything interesting, unique, or questions that come to mind when reading.
Discussion Questions:
1) Ruth Ch.1 gives a glimpse into a family tragedy. How does Naomi view God’s involvement in her life circumstances? How do you see them? What involvement did God have? Did He cause them? Did He allow them?
2) What are some ways you’ve seen bitterness being fed in your life or the lives of others?
3) Ephesians 4:31-32 provides guidance on replacing bitterness with kindness and forgiveness. How challenging do you find this instruction? What makes it difficult to let go of bitterness?