Forgiving What You Can't Forget
Relational Intelligence
April 6, 2025

Big Idea: Forgiveness isn’t about forgetting the hurt—it’s about choosing freedom, living from your true identity in Christ, and walking in healing that can’t be hijacked by your past.

If we could see forgiveness the way God does, we’d realize it’s not about ignoring the pain—it’s about stepping into the freedom He designed for us.

1. Forgiveness Is Our

2 Corinthians 5:7 - “We live by what we believe, not by what we feel or see.”

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2. Forgiveness Is Our

Colossians 3:13 - “Forgive one another just as Jesus graciously forgave you.”

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3. Forgiveness Is for Our

Hebrews 10:17 - “I will remember their sins no more.”

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Reflection Questions:

1 - What offense or hurt am I still holding onto that I need to release today?


2 - How have I allowed unforgiveness or bitterness to affect my peace, my relationships, or even my health?


3 - Do I believe that forgiveness is a choice, not a feeling? What would change if I started living like that’s true?


4 - In what ways am I re-attaching past offenses to my present identity, and how can I let them go?


5 - How does remembering what Jesus has done for me empower me to forgive what others have done to me?