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After The Rose

Scriptures -
Genesis 1:26-27, 2:24

Ephesians 5

Luke 14:33

7 Spheres of Intimacy

You cannot have true sexual intimacy because you don’t have financial intimacy.

01 Spiritual (Matthew 7:24-27)
02 Emotional (Song of Solomon 6:3 & 1 Corinthians 13:4-5)
03 Intellectual (Psalm 27:8)
04 Physical (1 Timothy 4:8)
05 Relational (Ephesians 4:2-3)
06 Financial (Proverbs 12:21)
07 Sexual (Proverbs 5:18-19)

How the STATE Sees Your Marriage

1. Sexual Exclusivity

2. Next of Kin

3. Financial Unity

5 INSIGHTS ABOUT MONEY IN MARRAGE

1. We do not value what our partner values.

2. We have fears and insecurities our spouse doesn’t comprehend.

3. We resist being fully one in marriage.

4. Different processing and communication styles cause a disconnect.

5. Knee-jerk reactions due to faulty assumptions.

6. Faulty Assumptions

   Expectations
   Ownership
   Fairness
   FOMO
   Projecting
   Motivations

4 Money Languages - Dr. Kenneth Doyle

1. Drivers
2. Analytic
3. Amiable
4. Expressive

HOW THEY VALUE $$

Money means success or status.
Believes money wards off chaos and problems. Well-structured financially.
Relationships and people are the focus of their finances.
Belief that money buys and respect and admiration of others.

WEAKNESS
Overly dependent on money for their significance/status Materialistic.
Legalistic regarding budgeting and money issues. Places budget above another person’s feelings.
Lack of money translates as an inability to demonstrate love. Often poor money managers.
Hides feelings of insecurity or incompetence with money. A tendency to value acceptance over budget.

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